October 27, 2008
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In the simplistic of terms, the main goal of life is to find a mate. Everything you do, everything you strive to be is for finding a mate. Majority of guys want to be come rich and successful so they can attract a girl. Majority of girls primp and diet to find a guy. It is a fact of life. And the main problem with society is that we no longer procreate for love. We are like penguins and lobsters. We are only suppose to have children with the one. Our soul mate. Nowadays there is so much pressure on people, women especially, to have children by a certain age. Our biological clock is ticking and the bomb goes off at 35. So society give us two choices: find someone you love before that age, or settle. As divorce rates show, 60% of us settle. We settle for the person we think is right instead of the person who is right. This is killing the youth through numerous psychological disorders. We are a truly a generation at a crossroads. Between the road that tells what society tells use, be accepted, be unhappy…. OR the road that tells us to rebel and find out what you really should do, who you really should be; and, in a nutshell, who you really should love.
SO WORD OF THE UNWISE…….. DO NOT SETTLE FOR WHAT YOU THINK IS LOVE.
Comments (8)
As a single 32 year-old woman, I refuse to settle. To me, if it was meant to be that I get married and have children, it’ll happen one way or another. But I refuse to pigeon hole myself into a loveless (read: settled) relationship just to quiet my biological clock.
@La_dolce_vida - well you are one of the few and i applaud you.
Damn!
amen.
I think the biological clock is wrong. People should not get married because there is a clock ticking. People should get married because they love the person and can not imagine life with anyone else. That’s the way it should be.
If only it was that easy. During the moments when we dive, we all think that the other person is the right one. Maybe there is no right one.
@benshee - if there is not right one… then what is the point of it all?
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